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Hi, I'm Monique, educator & coach, intimacy advocate, embodiment guide and TEDx speaker. My work is to support women in weaving soul, body, and sexual energy so you can step into your authenticity and power.

You are a sacred being who deserves to feel confident, embodied and clear so you move into a LIFE YOU LOVE.

Sometimes you need a different perspective to help you move in the direction of your deepest desires with yourself and others.  Let me guide you as you explore your capacity of intuition, embodiment, sexual expression and intimacy.

I support all faiths, cultures, and lifestyles. I am open and affirming of the LGBTQ+ community and all those who are curious.

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Discover your wild sensuality through the divine feminine.  It's time to bring the divine feminine back as the guide of true awakening.

In this four week program, you'll:

  • Empower your sensuality
  • Rediscover your pleasure
  • Getting intimate with your yoni
  • Conjuring the magic of your orgasm

You are doing women's work. Reclaim your sexy on your own terms.


BIG changes requires BIG action. Body Awakening Program is a full on embodiment training.  One-on-one coaching gives you focused time dedicated to your evolution.

  • Feel confident in your skin
  • Accept your body
  • Explore sensual movement
  • Develop your pleasure capacity
Each session is done through video or phone, whichever is more comfortable for you.

Learn how to weave your SOUL, BODY, & SEXUAL ENERGY

sexual shame

How to Move Out of Sexual Shame

By moniquegomez | June 10, 2020

Sexual shame is a real thing that most of us deal with at some point. Shame is sneaky as it can color our perception of ourselves. Shame is different than guilt.  In shame YOU ARE BAD, in guilt, YOU DID A BAD THING.  Shame is more harmful than guilt because it makes you as a …

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How using ancient teachings can Up Level your Sexual Energy

By moniquegomez | June 3, 2020

How can ancient sexual teachings help you cultivate your sexual energy?  The principles of Tao follow the natural cycles of nature herself. According to Chinese philosophy, Tao is the origin of all things in the Universe. By following the energy and the natural flow of things, you can tune your body into the flow itself.  …

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12 Hot Erogenous Zones to Ignite Erotic Desire

By moniquegomez | May 13, 2020

Every single body is very different and unique in how it feels arousal.  But there are certain areas that are more likely to spark erotic willingness.  Below are 12 erogenous zones that I know will ignite erotic desire. Touch is a powerful tool to get in the mood of erotic play. In fact, touch is …

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9 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life

By moniquegomez | April 29, 2020

There are many ways to fall into a sexual rut. Especially in times of uncertainty, extra stress and more anxiety. You want to have sex but turn on default mode. Basically you become boring and that becomes heavy. It’s important to spice up your sex life to keep your creative juices, and all other juices, …

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Your Brain on Orgasm

By moniquegomez | April 22, 2020

Have you ever wondered why you feel so damn good after you orgasm? Well let me say it’s not an accidental occurrence, but rather a part of our beautiful brain chemistry.  Your brain on orgasm is a healthy alternative to any other drug around for a pleasure boost. As you know, sex or self-pleasure time, …

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Empower Your Inner Magician Part 2

By moniquegomez | April 15, 2020

Last week we talked about 4 qualities that are vital to develop as you get Empower Your Inner Magician for transformation.  Today I want to give you 5 more qualities that you can work with to EMPOWER YOU as you consciously decide to AWAKEN.  When we have extra space in life, meaning extra time, it …

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Empower Your Inner Magician Part 1

By moniquegomez | April 8, 2020

Lets discuss some qualities that are vital to develop as you get to know your personal power for transformation. You can empower your inner magician by practicing.  This is a time of great change and with this change comes a wealth of space and time as routines have been interrupted. You have the choice of …

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Become A Sexual Alchemist

By moniquegomez | April 1, 2020

I’m sure you’ve heard about Alchemy or alchemists. You know, those pre-chemistry scientists that were trying to turn lead into gold. Sound familiar? Alchemists were scientists searching to make the impossible possible. So, alchemists believed it was possible to transform energy from a base level to a noble level.  More than anything else, alchemists were …

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The Vagina Vocal Cord Connection

By moniquegomez | March 11, 2020

Did you know your vagina directly relates to your vocal cords? Anatomically these areas of the body are of similar structure.  The idea of “open throat open vagina” might be an intuitive sense you yoni owners have, but there is actual similarities that exist.  If you look at the anatomy, both the vocal cords and …

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How To Choose Pleasure

By moniquegomez | February 26, 2020

It might sound crazy, but most of us don’t know how to choose pleasure.  Unfortunately, there is a pleasure limitation that is running rampant, keeping us from a deep satisfaction in life.  We can be more comfortable in suffering and pain, which limits our experience of pleasure. Or we have an addiction to pleasurable things …

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TEDx ABQ Women 2019

I was honored to be selected as one of eight women who spoke at the 2019 TEDx ABQ Women's event. The Power Of The Pause was a call to everyone to slow down, take a moment and connect to their intuition. Check out the talk now.