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Coaching moves you out of confusion, disconnection, insecurities and fear to deep understanding and acceptance of your body, connection to your sexual power and confidence.

Coaching focuses on where you are and where you want to go. You give yourself time and attention to explore yourself. Remember, awareness creates choice so once you have awareness of what holds you back from being your fullest self, you have the choice to change.

Coaching helps you understand and move out of insecurities about your purpose, body, and sexuality keep you from your WHOLENESS.  These areas cause many problems yet we don’t give them the attention they need.  Especially sex. Most people assume sex is a natural act so we just know how to do it, yet sex is one of the most underestimated healing modalities and overused control tactics.

Big changes take big actions.  Coaching gives you the actions you need to take to make the changes you want. If you feel disconnected from your body, frustrated with your sex life, or wanting to feel alive in your soul, coaching with Monique is for you.

You don't need to focus on your past.

It's about where you are NOW and where you are going. 


People ask me to be their coach for many reasons. 

monique gomez, erotic educator, sex coach, erotic coach, embodiment
  • Shame, frustration, guilt or disappointment about their sexuality and desires
  • Body hate and shame
  • Complicated relationship with pleasure and sexual expression
  • Not connected to their needs, wants and desires
  • Feeling “something is wrong” or “missing” around sex, intimacy and eroticism
  • Fear they are abnormal, broken or undesirable
  • Lack of confidence
  • A desire for more depth and permission to express authentically
  • Healing sexual wounds, stories of love and self-worth
  • Wanting to find a truth about intimacy since most of what we are taught is confusing
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Intuitively guided

Explore inner realm

Release shame

Learn skills to move out of depression or disconnection

Gain confidence

Feel at home in your body

Learn self-love tools you can do anywhere

Coaching Options

For those who want to take it at your own pace, single sessions are great.

  • One-on-One Session

    60 minute ZOOM video session

  • Soulwork

    Practices or tools specifically designed for you.

  • Special Access

    Monique will be available via email between coaching session. 

Gold Package

For those willing to commit to self-evolution, grab 4 coaching sessions for deep transformation.

  • One-on-One Session

    60 minute ZOOM video session

  • 4 Sessions

    More to love and save in a bundle. Commit to your evolution.

  • Soulwork

    Practices or tools designed for your individual needs.

  • Special Access

    Monique will be available via email between coaching session. 

  • Bonus

    Access to Self-Touch Healing courses.

I work with people of all genders, sexuality, and engaging in all types of intimate relationships, including the LGBTQ community.

Please email me if you have specific questions.

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You can have the life you desire through embodiment, intuition, and sexual energy empowerment.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Coaching vs Therapy?

    Coaching and therapy are not the same although they have some similarities. 

    Therapy tends to examine where you are now by looking at your past and unwinding long held stories and wounds.  It is great for times of crisis.

    Coaching focuses on the present and future goals.  It helps understand current ways of thinking and gives tools to build the future desires.

    Coaching is for those ready to self-reflect and be honest about where you are right now, where you want to go, and tools to get there.  

    There is no diagnosis or identifying label in coaching. Monique is a health educator and coach, not a licensed therapist.

  • We did the discovery call, we are a great match, now what?

    Step 1: Purchase a single session or package.

    Step 2: Monique will email you session intake, coaching agreement and schedule options within 24 hours of purchase.

    Step 3: Dive into session!

  • What happens in a session?

    We will first create a container of safe space meaning we both show up with respect to the process.  We will start where you are in each session and I will ask open ended, nonjudgmental questions to help you examine your issues, questions, patterns from a new perspective. 

    You hold the wisdom of your truth and I am a guide to help you find it.  

    Usually, there is homework or SOULWORK after each session to be done between sessions. These can be things like journal prompts, self touch exploration, readings, research, experiments, outings, date nights, and much more. 

  • Where do we have sessions?

    All coaching sessions are done online via ZOOM.  

    If there is a need to meet in person, it is discussed on an individual basis.