ABOUT

BELIEF #1

Real connection starts with self-connection.

BELIEF #2

Your sensuality is a source of wisdom.

BELIEF #3

Authenticity emerges when survival patterns soften.

I'M MONIQUE

Most people know me as a certified sex therapist, educator, and coach—but truly, I’m someone who believes that staying human in a rapidly changing world begins with one simple thing: connection—to your body, your heart, your soul.

In a world that often asks us to numb, rush, or perform, I guide people back to what’s real: the language of the body, the truth of sensation, the sacredness of intimacy, and the radical act of heart-led living.

Through my work, I help you slow down enough to feel again—because when you feel safe in your body, everything opens. Your voice. Your boundaries. Your capacity to love, receive, and belong.

If you’re ready to release shame, reclaim your sensuality, and come home to the wisdom within—you’re not alone. This is the work. And I’m honored to walk it with you.

MY STORY

I was raised in a traditional Latina household where we didn’t talk about sex, emotions, or the body. I learned early on to stay small, stay quiet, and disconnect from my desires in order to belong. But over time, that disconnection showed up as anxiety, self-doubt, and a sense that I was only half alive.

It took courage to break those patterns—to unlearn shame, reclaim my sensuality, and rebuild a relationship with my body. Through somatic healing, sacred sexuality, and spiritual practice, I found my way back to myself. Now, I help others do the same: release inherited wounds, reconnect with truth, and create lives rooted in safety, intimacy, and embodied self-trust.

When We Work Together

This work isn’t surface-level. It’s deep, embodied, and heart-led.
When we work together, you can expect:

A safe, judgment-free space to be fully yourself
Tools to support your nervous system and deepen self-trust
A clear path to reconnect with your sensuality, truth, and relational integrity
Conversations that honor both your inner wisdom and lived experience
Support that blends science, spirit, and soul

I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to help you remember who you are—and create the kind of connection that actually lasts.

Relationship Coach

Certified Sex Therapist

15+ years in sacred sexuality, movement, and trauma-informed healing

"Monique’s class was such an amazing experience. We dove into topics of sexuality and body image and she was able to hold an open compassionate space for all of us to share. "

Michelle

"After our session, I felt that a huge weight had lifted off my shoulders and I had a new sense of clarity that I had not had in such a long time. I would definitely recommend Monique!"

Cindy

How To Work With Me

Erotic Soul Book

A poetic and powerful guidebook for those reclaiming their erotic nature, softening shame, and remembering the sacred wisdom of the body.

READ THE BOOK

The Pleasure Codes

A self paced course for women ready to rewire their nervous system for safety, sensation, and deeper emotional and sexual connection.

JOIN THE COURSE

Relationship Reset Retreat

A private, high-touch 2-day retreat for couples ready to rebuild trust, repair patterns, and reconnect through nervous system attunement and intimacy-based coaching.

APPLY HERE

Stay Connected

If you're not ready to dive in yet, that’s okay. Healing is personal, and it unfolds in its own timing.

Touchpoints is my weekly email letter on embodied intimacy, nervous system repair, and connection that lasts. It’s short, soul-led, and packed with practical insight—from my heart to your inbox.