Intimacy Coaching & Couples Support

Private support for individuals and couples ready for calmer communication, deeper intimacy, and more trust in themselves and each other.

Heal shame. Rebuild connection. Come home to your body.

This work is for people who do not want to stay on the surface.
It is for those who are ready to understand what is happening beneath the conflict, beneath the shutdown, beneath the intimacy struggles, and beneath the patterns that no longer fit who they are becoming.

My private offers are designed for those who value depth, discretion, and high-level support.

Somatic relationship coach · sex educator · speaker · author of Erotic Soul

Advanced work rooted in embodiment, emotional truth, communication repair, intimacy education, and shame healing.

For those who want more than insight alone


Sometimes you do not need more information.
You need a space that helps you slow down, see clearly, and move through what has been difficult to shift on your own.

My work is designed for high-functioning, thoughtful people who are ready for meaningful support around communication, intimacy, shame, body trust, and emotional reconnection.

Whether you come as an individual or as a couple, the focus is the same:
to create real change at the root, not just temporary relief on the surface.

My Approach

My work brings together nervous system support, emotional honesty, somatic awareness, and intimacy education.

I help people understand what is happening beneath the pattern so they can create change that feels grounded, lasting, and true.

This may include:

  • calming reactivity and overwhelm

  • understanding conflict patterns and shutdown cycles

  • healing shame and rebuilding body trust

  • improving communication and repair

  • restoring emotional and physical intimacy

  • creating a more honest relationship with desire, self, and connection

This is not about becoming someone else.
It is about returning to yourself with more clarity, capacity, and trust.

Couples Reconnection Intensive

A private intensive for couples ready to shift the pattern, not just talk around it.

This offer is designed for couples who want focused, high-level support around communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, and emotional reconnection.

Instead of spreading the work out over months of small sessions, this intensive creates a deeper container for insight, repair, and forward movement.

Together, we work with the dynamics that keep repeating beneath the surface so you can begin relating with more steadiness, honesty, and care.

This is for you if:

  • you keep having the same conflict in different forms

  • communication feels tense, reactive, or unresolved

  • one of you shuts down while the other pursues

  • emotional or sexual intimacy has become strained

  • you want deeper support in a more focused format

Format:
3-hour private intensive
Virtual

Optional next step:
Continue with a private coaching immersion for integration and deeper support.

Private Embodied Reset Intensive

A deep, focused experience for individuals ready to reconnect with their body, voice, and truth.

This intensive is for individuals who want support around shame, body disconnection, intimacy blocks, performance anxiety, painful sex, identity shifts, or emotional overwhelm.

It is designed to help you slow down, understand your patterns more clearly, and begin creating a different relationship with yourself from the inside out.

This is a powerful place to begin if you are ready for depth but do not want an open-ended weekly model.

This is for you if:

  • you feel disconnected from your body

  • shame is shaping how you relate to intimacy

  • anxiety or self-protection is making closeness harder

  • you want to feel more honest, confident, and grounded in yourself

  • you are ready to release old patterns and step into a new version of your life with more trust

Format:
2–3 hour private intensive
Virtual

  • "Monique is a great listener, and she has helped me in specific, personalized ways that increase my quality of life."

    SM

  • “I just had a phenomenal session with Monique. It was so powerful and emotional."

    NB

  • "My session with Monique was so informative and eye-opening. She has a way of guiding the conversation where you don’t realize that you are in a session but just talking to a good friend."

    CS

Feel Connected Again

Rediscover a happy relationship that feels satisfying and connected

 FAQs for Relationship Coaching

  • Doing what you are doing now isn’t working and I’m assuming if you’re here, you are probably on the path to destruction. We can work to change course. Working together doesn’t guarantee staying together but it does guarantee clarity. With clarity you have new awareness. Remember, AWARENESS=CHOICE.

  • The patterns you are in now aren’t working so new ways are going to be uncovered. Change toward a more harmonious and loving relationship will happen if you’re willing.

  • Yes it can be scary, awkward and vulnerable as can be. But here's the deal, I've spent over a decade studying sexuality through multiple lens spanning from spiritual tantric practices to research based analysis. I have multiple advanced certifications specifically in sexuality because I know how hard it can be to navigate that realm. I honor your experiences and do my best to create a shameless judgment free environment where you can talk openly about what's really going on.

  • No judgment here. There are many ways to relate and create relationships. LGBTQIA+, Kink, Poly…all are welcomed.

  • This is called sexual desire discrepancy and it's one of the most common areas I work with. We work to find a solution that feels good for both/all partners involved.

You are worthy

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