Pleasure is your birthright. Take a moment to really feel that statement.
By being born a human, you are automatically given a body that is meant to experience pleasure. Most times, we are experiencing pain, hurt, sadness and forget about pleasure and never able to enjoy it.
I’m not speaking of just sexual pleasure. It’s anything you find pleasurable. From taking a candlelit bath, having that luxurious dessert at your favorite restaurant, or spending time with your BFF and laughing for hours.
All of these are pleasurable experiences and you are an active part in all of them.
Sex is an area designed to bring pleasure yet there is so much stigma, beliefs and pressures, pleasure can be overlooked. Pleasure is not just orgasm in sex…it’s the entire experience.
Your body knows exactly what it wants when it’s turned on, it’s your job to listen to it.
You are responsible for your pleasure in the bedroom.
Your partner is not responsible for your pleasure. If you are single, you don’t need to find someone for your next orgasm.
You are responsible for your body.
So it’s vital for you to discover your pleasure on your own. It’s important to know what you like what you don’t like, what turns you on what turns you off.
It’s time to own your body and own your pleasure.
Speaking specifically to ladies here, we are often not sure what we want. We are taught to look to others to tell us or show us what we want. Think about the last time someone asked you where you would like to go to dinner. Did you come out and make a suggestion or did you say “whatever you feel like”?
It’s time for you to own your wants, your desires, your pleasures.
Your body is your 24 hour 7 day a week 365 day a year pleasure lab. You are in a body that is made to experience pleasure.
As I hope you know by now, I am a HUGE advocate for self-love and self-touch to find what you enjoy. Self-pleasure is vital to know what you your body likes and dislikes.
Give yourself the opportunity and gift to play with yourself because it EMPOWERS YOU!
When you know your body, when you are intimate with your intimate spaces, there is a confidence that begins to beam from you.
You can feel your bigness, your rightful space to be here. Your body is yours to own and yours to enjoy.
Do you celebrate your body and really feel how much pleasure it can receive?
Here are some ways to experience your body and pleasure:
- Touch your pussy with intention of getting to know her.
- Dance to a song that makes you feel sexy.
- Get that massage or facial you’ve been putting off.
- Eat that decadent chocolate cake.
- Sit at your altar and meditate.
When you are in your full self and experiencing fun and pleasure all on your own, that shit radiates out. You will notice people interact with you differently.